Dear Rose,
Hi!
I don't know whether you are in the UK, or the US, for anything smaller than a quarter or a 10p piece you can use a creme brulee torch, which you should be able to find in a department store or hardware store, they are fueled by butane cigarette lighter fuel.
For larger pieces you may want to buy a larger torch,either a plumber's torch or the torches described by Deb in her post, Rio Grande has them in the US, you would probably need to phone them to see if they sell to the UK, I tend to know more about beading resources in the UK than metals ones.
www.riogrande.com
If you have a local school, or college has a metals, or basic jewellery making class, I would take it, it really helped me when I was learning the basics and I still take them when I can afford them, they will show you how to handle the tools, prepare your metals and what to look for at each stage, plus you get a chance to try different tools before you make an investment in expensive equipment, I'm gradually putting together a small set up at home, but I use the larger torches and rolling mill and kilns at the art center when I go as I can't afford my own just now. Your local library, or google should help you find a class in your area.
My basic soldering set up is a creme brulee torch, a solderite pad over an annealing pan and pumice, everything sits on a large baking tray (not to be used for food). I have a set of locking tweezers, a soldering pick, a third hand which is useful for holding already soldered chain links away from the rest, and some copper tongs which I use to pick up hot pieces to drop them into a baking tin full of water to quench them, if you can find an inexpensive crock pot (slow cooker) you can use that as a pickle pot, you use the copper tongs to put stuff in the pickle - if you use steel pliers you will copper plate everything in the pot!
You will also need flux and solder you will need at least 2 of the grades for soldering bezels I have hard and medium at home and next month I will probably buy some easy solder, for chain paste solder can be very useful as you can put it where it is needed, I bought my sheet solder through Santa Fe (Rio has it too) and Monsterslayer has the paste solder similar to the type I have, I bought mine from Dave's Rockshop in
Evanston Illinois.
www.sfjssantafe.com
www.monsterslayer.com
hope this helps get you started,
Love, Jan[:)]